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Once, on a fishing trip with some friends, I Nothwest one of those firefighters who parachutes into fires from an airplane. I had my first, real dinner-and-a-movie date in Alaska with a sweet man I met at the bookstore.
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I once spent the better part of a year working in a fishing village in the Aleutian Islands, and the men of the Alaskan bush country were as surly as werewolves.
So what is the point of dating, then?
I had an epiphany while I lived in Alaska: Dating can be so much fun. Sometimes you get to sit on the rooftop of a bookstore, drink wine, and watch the Aurora Borealis. I want that Alaska feeling back.
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